Hard to believe …

I think today I just realised that we have more than $16,000 ready to buy a home, nearly $5000 in an emergency fund, and at least $6000 in other accounts for a range of purposes!

I know I posted these figures recently, but today I really just looked at them properly and really thought about how much it took to get here. It might not sem like a lot of money to some people, but to us it is like reaching Everest!

After so many years of struggling financially, this just seems hard to believe. Our difficulties started about 10 years ago when my husband sold his business and the new buyers defaulted on the purchase – after they had started renovations and left the building looking like a bomb site. Without that money or the business income, we had just my (office junior) income and a big bunch of final costs and legal bills to pay.  My husband’s plans for a new business had to be shelved because there was no start-up money, just bills. He had put all of his money into his business and like that, it was gone. Now he had to find a job, and to his credit he took what he could find. He went from a successful business owner to initially being a cleaner at a hotel. He didn’t let his pride get in the way of bringing in a wage (I’ll always be proud of him for that). He knew it was only for the short term, and it needed to be done.

Then we had a protracted court case, resulting (nine years later) in a paltry sum that didn’t even cover the cost of the legal bills. I think it worked out at about $1000 per year! Luckily, we had just kept on plugging on with our lives as best we could, and worked through paying our creditors. Many of them had been business associates and friends, and many were very good about waiting for their money. Again, I’m proud we paid them back and didn’t run away from it. 

Then I went back to university for 8 years and we survived on one income – initially it wasn’t a very good one either. But we knew that my studies would be worth it in the future.

Over the years, hubby’s income got better. But we watched the price of homes in our area more than double, all the while listening to friends tease me for worrying about money because `when you get out of uni, you won’t have to worry about money anyway’! (Yeah, right! While thing are better, we are far from not worrying about money.)

Eventually things did get better. We started being generally more responsible with the little money we did have and started getting rid of the `dumb’ debt we had, like credit cards and the like. Eventually we got rid of all the debt … after a few years of absolute bare bones living.

And now, as of this year, we are on two quite good incomes and our lives have started to change. Not because we have made our lives any more fancy, but because we are starting to move forward.

This is more than just having more money. Going through this has made us into fundamentally different people.  We are so much more cautious with our spending, and value security much more than just making sure the bills are paid (which is what we used to emphasise).

I don’t ever want to be in that situation again, and maybe that is one of the blessings in what we have been through. The fact of being in big debt without a quick way out made us `wake up’ in a way that some people who don’t ever face big financial worries never do. Instead of just paying the bills and spending the rest, we want to move towards a life where we are relaxed and moving forward financially each month. Let’s hope we stick with that, and reap even more of the associated rewards.


  1. Congrats! I’m very happy for you!

  2. Wow, what an empowering feeling! You’ve come so far, you’ve almost got all your goals!!!

  3. Lisa Clark said

    I am so impressed with what you have achieved and wish you all the best on the success of your goals.

  4. Ryans Dad said

    Congragulations! Thanks for having me on your blogroll as well! I just realized today that I was on yours. I think I found your site and put you on my blogroll several months ago! Anyway, continued success to you!

  5. Leila said

    Your story is so inspiring. I find myself saving a lot more than ever even with a lower income. Things that seemed so normal to spend money on seem so stupid now.

  6. Great story and excellent progress!!

  7. Maureen said

    Congratulations your achievment, has spurred me on.

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